Can't sleep

... I hope it's a joke or a prank ...


Why is it like that ...

Gan chu shen tong

I seldom regret things that I have done ... But this time, it's kind of ... dunno what to say ... just feeling zonked out

My mind is blank ... sometimes its good not to think too much, just do it, never give up the chance ...

argh i'm an idiot ... real idioot this time round

Xmas didnt seem to be too good this yr

Craze

Been thinking of getting many stuffs lately haha

Though am really broke .. but am really quite gian to get the subaru impreza haah or the kia koupe. Will be going for a test drive soon! vrroommz :)

Am intending to sell off my macbook pro 17" as well, so as to get the cool iMac haha. The to die for screen ... drrooolllls lol

Silence is golden

Went for a feng shui talk today... seems like its better for me to keep quiet about things, work hard and stay low for the coming year. I think that's hard to achieve given that I have many complaints and will voice out given the chance.

I think I have changed abit over this 1 year. Becoming more shrewd when it comes to relationships, not as naive and gullible as before - thinking about more things. Not all friends are friends ... not all colleagues are friends ...

Its a bad thing to me ... But ... am having mixed feelings about this issue. Besides more shrewd, I think I have also become more opinionated. Which ... I have never been known to have before. Some things have gone wrong ... somehow ...

Hopefully year 2010 will be a good year, though the feng shui master says it will be a lonely year for dogs .. I am already lonely now! haha how worse can it get ... i wonder ...

Anyways, resolution for year 2010 is not to antagonize anyone .. and yet ... to be myself ... how ironic can this be haha

Cheers to the end of year 2009

Aristotle

Read an article recently that explains a theory by aristotle related to relationship -interpersonal relationship.

According to Aristotle, there are three kinds of interpersonal relationship
1) utility
2) pleasure
3) virtue

Utility is the most superficial kind of the three. It means that the relationship only started because both sides have a purpose. Eg buyer, seller or working colleagues - basically the hi bye friends

Pleasure brings it up to another level. This kind of relationship us built upon common hobbies, activities such as maybe photography, movies, drinks etc. This kind of relationship will last only for as long as both parties continue to derive the same pleasure from a common activity.

Virtue is the one that goes down deep to simply enjoying the other's character and personality. Because one's character is rooted, this is by far the most long lasting kind of relationship - unless of cos it's the impression and not true character you are portraying.

Find above pretty interesting.